Sex & Relationship Therapy for

Infidelity Recovery

YOU WANT TO TRUST AGAIN,

BUT NOT BY PRETENDING THIS DIDN'T HAPPEN

Let’s Rebuild What Matters.

in Brooklyn, NY & Portland, OR

Betrayal doesn't just break trust.

It breaks your sense of reality.

You thought you knew your relationship. Now you're questioning everything: what was real, what you missed, whether you can ever feel safe with this person again.

The hurt partner is drowning in intrusive thoughts, scanning for more lies, struggling to get through a normal day without their mind spiraling. The person who betrayed is caught between shame, defensiveness, and desperation to fix something they don’t fully understand.

You're both exhausted. And you're both terrified you'll never get back to each other.

Recovery is possible. But it requires more than apologies and promises.

What We’ll Do

Infidelity recovery isn't about getting over it. It's about moving through it together. Honestly, painfully, and with enough support to come out stronger on the other side.

Take Responsibility

The betraying partner takes full ownership. No minimizing, no defending. The hurt partner gets to ask questions and have them answered. Trust begins to rebuild not through words, but through the capacity to stay present with the pain.

Turn Toward

We make sense of what happened. What needs went unspoken? What did each of you stop sharing with the other? Both partners develop deeper understanding of each other's inner world. You learn to have the conversations you've been avoiding.

Rebuild

We create a new relationship together. One where you can be vulnerable without fear, where you know your partner has your back, where you can repair quickly when things go wrong. For many couples, this becomes the relationship they always wanted but didn't know how to build.

You don't have to know if you want to stay.

You just have to be willing to find out.

This is for you if

  • You've discovered infidelity and want to know if your relationship can survive

  • You're the one who betrayed and you're committed to doing whatever it takes to repair

  • You're stuck in cycles of interrogation, defensiveness, or emotional withdrawal

  • You're ready to be humble, take ownership, and rebuild.

  • You believe there's something worth fighting for, even when you can't feel it

How I Work

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Infidelity doesn't have to be the end of your story. For many couples, it becomes a turning point. The crisis that finally forced honesty. The rupture that led to deeper connection than they'd ever had before.

I can't promise you'll stay together. I can promise that whatever you decide, you'll understand yourselves and each other more clearly. And that clarity, painful as it is, is the foundation for whatever comes next.

The Approach

01 / No Villains

02 / Beyond Talk

03/Your Pace

I hold both partners with care. The person who was betrayed needs their pain witnessed without minimization. The person who betrayed needs to be seen as more than their worst choice. Both of these things can be true at the same time.

Betrayal lives in the body. Your nervous system is hijacked: scanning for danger, struggling to regulate, oscillating between numbness and flood. We work with what's happening in your body, not just what you think about it.

I don't have a timeline for your healing. Forgiveness isn't required to stay together, and staying together isn't required for healing. We follow what's true for you.

FAQs

  • Most couples need 6-12 months of consistent work, though some need longer. The timeline depends on the nature of the betrayal, how long it went on, whether there's full disclosure, and how much both partners are willing to engage with the process.

  • Of course. I won't impose assumptions about what your relationship should look like. We focus on what agreements were broken and what you want to build now.

  • That's normal. You don't need to know the answer to start. Many couples begin therapy to help them decide. The goal isn't to keep you together at all costs. It's to help you make a clear, informed decision about your future.

  • Yes. Emotional affairs, online relationships, and digital boundary violations can be just as devastating as physical infidelity. We work with whatever broke trust in your relationship.

Free 20-minute consult. We'll talk about where you are

and what might help.

Ready to rebuild?

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